Dean Winchester Whats Your Safe Word Again

Anonymous asked:

What'southward our safeword? I'g not vanilla plenty to employ stoplight and then get creative ;iii

dom-cas answered:

Creative, you say? [cracks knuckles]

Strangely enough, every Dom I've ever had relieve one was of the same opinion, which makes sense considering the scene; if you want someone to spank your donkey ruby-red, red might not be the best cease discussion to use. I hesitate to telephone call it vanilla when information technology's widely accepted; maybe basic? And so again, I don't necessarily observe vanilla to be patently, so to each their own. No definition shamin' in these hither parts.

Anyway, back to the topic. I had a Dom who insisted on a two-give-and-take safeword. It wound up beingness "porcupine cantaloupe" of all damn things. So we could become with the two-give-and-take system, if you're prepared to play safeword Mad Libs. I personally think the two-word system is designed to brand subs less inclined to use their words, and so I'm not a fan.

I really like using fruit as a safeword, though if yous're doing any kind of food play/handfeeding activities, that'south probably a terrible idea. ("Strawberry, delight." "Are you okay??" "I'm fine, I was only request nicely for another 1, clip that cuff back on.")

If we're non going spotlight, and nosotros want something unusual, then we tin can immediately dominion out the about commonly used safeword in D/C D/south–"Impala". If nosotros want to stay in the same thematic category, we could use "Continental" or maybe "Lincoln." Nothing stops a scene faster than name-dropping a dead American president. (Unless you're in a scene with a United states of america Civil War history vitrify, in which case, best of luck.)

So we want an unusual discussion reminiscent of the source material that doesn't play in traffic and volition be singled-out enough to be heard.

My vote's for "insouciant".

P.S. My answers to asks are, nine times out of ten, going to exist long and rambly and full of introspection. I'thou not sorry in the to the lowest degree, so I'll go ahead and put myself in the corner.

Okay, and then using this would exist pure plagiarism only every fourth dimension I encounter word on Dean/Cas rubber words I recollect of Nickelback considering of this fic, Sex 101, or: That Time Castiel Asked Dean to Teach Him How to Have Sex activity

Considering this conversation nailed it:

"So?" Cas asks.

Dean hesitates, then mutters, "Nickelback."

"Nickelback," Cas repeats dorsum. He was expecting pineapple, or banana, or cinnamon.

"Yep."

"Why?" he asks.

"Because when I listen to them, I think, 'No. Stop it.'"

Then maybe think outside the box when information technology comes to Dean and Cas safe words. You would never think Nickelback would be a great safe discussion for Dean until you see that conversation but once you do it actually clicks.

A lot of fics use Stull or Poughkeepsie or some other proper name of a town where something traumatic for Dean Winchester happened (a sadly and unsurprisingly long listing). And yep, that is surely going to be effective in stopping any sexytimes from happening, but I've always wondered if information technology's a wise idea to pull up traumatic memories in order to finish a bdsm scene? Y'know, since headspace is so important, wouldn't that sort of not only put a screeching halt on proceedings, but also immediately drag y'all down to really unhealthy levels?

@brainsforbabyjesus: Information technology's really funny you should mention that, because the blog safeword was "Nickleback" until twoish weeks agone. [tips lid to modern dom!cas, @bettydays] So y'all had the correct idea!

@alessariel: I'm i of the Poughkeepsie safeword writers myself. Nix traumatic happened to them at that place (equally far as I can recall) just it is the Winchester warning word, which is why I had Dean use it. Made sense to me, since it was already something he was used to using to indicate that Shit Is Not Right. I honestly hadn't even considered the implications of using "Lawrence" equally his yellow give-and-take, but you bring up a very skillful betoken. If it'southward going to be a triggering word, then yes, you would absolutely want to avoid information technology. The bespeak of having safewords is to take words that not simply keep yous prophylactic, but that yous feel rubber using. Anything that can stand in the fashion between either participant using a safeword needs to be eliminated. Otherwise, what'due south the goddamn point? Mostly, I was only trying to be derisive. Also I actually love 5x04.

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